Over the next few days I am going to be posting answers to w..

Over the next few days I am going to be posting answers to what I refer to as my "Top Ten Questions Asked to Ember Snow." Call this an FAQ. The answers will not be short and they be revealing a lot more of myself to you than I am used to. Hopefully you will read all of this and get to know me better. And if you have any questions you want to add to this, please respond and ask...but please, keep them classy. :) Today's question: #10: What do you look for in a man? – I am extremely picky when it comes to men…but it is mostly about their personality. As far as looks, I used to be all about the tall, dark, muscular guys who were impeccably groomed and dressed. However, as time has gone by, I have ran into way too many guys like that who know how good looking and desirable they are, and they use that just to get laid. They don’t give a damn about me, who I am or anything about my life. Especially after I got into the porn industry. They all think I’m just supposed to drool over them and spread my legs. But the same can be said for men who are less than handsome, out of shape, etc. I’ve dated guys like these and they can be really nice guys, but the lack of confidence is something I feel is their biggest drawback. They feel like they have to overcompensate by being incredibly nice, sweet, complimentary and self-denigrating just so I won’t see them as a threat. This can be a huge turn-off as well. So, I have found myself turning toward men who are not classically handsome, not “perfect” but also have a sense of their confidence. They aren’t motivated by having sex with me, but getting to know who I am. I do believe that you should be friends first and lovers eventually if the spark is there. And the men who are confident enough to put sex on the back burner and be all about the friendship first are the ones who are going to win. – But these days I am very much attracted to women. Really hot women. Just watch the video with me and Tia Kai below and you'll get an idea of what I mean. Sorry, guys. :)